I was new to the world of BDSM and was feeling curious and uncertain at the same time. I wanted to explore this new realm of pleasure, but I was a bit hesitant. That‘s when I decided to take the plunge and try out a strap on dildo. At first, I felt a little bit nervous. I mean, I‘m no virgin, but the thought of using a strap on dildo with a partner took some getting used to. I had images in my head of two people, just thrusting away, not quite knowing how to make it work.
But after a bit of research and an open conversation with my partner, we came up with a plan to make it work. We bought a strap on dildo harness and a dildo to go with it. As soon as that arrived, the nervousness I had felt before melted away. I felt empowered and excited to get started. We took our time getting used to the risk and the pleasure of the experience. We figured out how to make the harness fit comfortably, discovered the different ways that we could use it, and even experimented with anal and double penetration.
We grew to appreciate the power of the strap on dildo, and we‘ve never looked back since. The biggest thing I have gained by using a strap on dildo is the confidence that comes with having that kind of control and responsibility over someone else‘s pleasure. It‘s a thrilling feeling to be the one in charge and know that you can be the one to drive someone else‘s pleasure into realms they never imagined. Using a strap on dildo has also helped me to develop a closer relationship with my partner.
While there are certainly moments of extreme pleasure and satisfaction, I think the biggest thing I’ve gained from it is the trust and communication that comes from intimate play. We have to be able to trust and communicate in order for it to work, and that has suited us both very well. I’m so glad I took the plunge and experimented with a strap on dildo. It has opened up a new world of pleasure and exploration for both me and my partner.
We still use strap on dildos often and I don’t plan on stopping anytime soon. Strap on dildos have allowed me to gain confidence, trust, and connection with my partner, and have improved our sex life in ways I never thought possible.
What I found most interesting was the connection I was able to make with myself and with my partners using the strap–on. I was no longer conscious of my insecurities and I faintly caught a glimpse of my power. The straps on the harness allowed me to control the pressure and the sensations that occurred during the activity. It felt good both mentally and physically. Using the strap–on dildo opened up an entirely new world of sexual exploration for me.
It allowed me to express my desires in a safe space, and it helped me develop a confidence in my sexuality that I hadn‘t felt before. More importantly though, it showed me how to build meaningful connections with other people and to build strong, intimate relationships. I began to rely on my own skills and experienced pleasure in ways I‘d never experienced before. Ever since that initial session with my therapist, using a strap–on dildo has become a regular part of my life. I‘m stronger and more confident in my relationships, and I‘m able to engage with my partners in a way that I hadn‘t been able to before.
If you‘re like me, and you‘re looking for a way to build a stronger connection with yourself and with your partners, then I definitely recommend giving a strap on dildo a try. Not only is it enjoyable, but it also gives you a powerful tool in building relationships.