Having sex with a double sided strap-on dildo is a great way to explore new and exciting sexual experiences. Just as pleasing to the mind and body as having sex with a actual partner, this form of experience can be (and often is) just as satisfying. The double sided strap-on dildo, or more commonly referred to as a double-ended dildo, offers a near infinite number of ways to explore various types of pleasure with a partner.
First and most important, finding the 'right' double sided strap-on is key. Different sizes, shapes, materials (some even colored) are available; shopping together as a pair will help determine what both partners want and need. Using some form of lube is also important - comfort in using one will only enhance the experience, physical stability being a secondary but related benefit.
Once a choice of dildo has been made, preparing for the experience itself is the next step. The harness goes on, body shape and size specific adjustments should be made. Attaching the dildo to said harness and checking that it curves in the correct direction is all part of the prepping. Most dildos have some sort of arrow or small marking to indicate which side 'up' should be. Securely fastened, getting started is simple. Taking turns is my personal preference, one partner as receiver and the other as giver. The receiver guides the action at least partially, and can always or eventually want to take over the giving of pleasure. Both partners will always, to some degree, enjoy the experience.
If both partners want to penetrate each other at the same time, this is also an option. In this situation, it’s important to make sure that the double sided strap-on dildo stays in place throughout the experience.
Keeping it secure can be achieved by the receiving partner slightly moving their hips in some form of up-and-down motion; pushing and pulling the dildo correctly into position. The giver can help with this by at least partially stabilizing the harness and/or dildo themselves with their hands. Mindfulness of each partner's erogenous zones should always be kept in mind, varying the strokes to some degree. Increasing all round stimulation for both partners is the end goal of these more complex positions. Positions mentioned above are by no means the only ways to spice up an experience using a double sided strap-on.
Having one partner lie down while the other kneels or squats on them is one such option - facing each other being a large part of the pleasure both can derive. Both partners lying on their sides (receiving on the bottom if possible) creates that near ideal angle for simultaneous penetration; eye contact and all round mutual pleasure are easily achieved in this position. No matter what you or your partner choose to do, communication is key. Pleasure (of any and all forms) should always be the end result. Mastering the basics of a double sided strap-on will take time, but like all things in life, mutual and/or individual pleasure is worth the effort to find.
