For many people, the idea of strap on dildo can seem intimidating, impractical and downright uncomfortable. But, with the proper equipment and technique, strap on dildo can be a pleasurable and enjoyable experience that can provide hours of joy and intimacy for the two partners.
So, for the curious and courageous, here’s a comprehensive guide to strapping on your very own strap on dildo for an unforgettable experience.
First, you need to get yourself a dildo and all the necessary gear. As far as the gear goes, you will need a harness (either O–ring compatible, or strap–on specially sized ones) and, depending on the kind of toy you’re getting, some lube. The strap on dildo itself can be made of a variety of materials; the most popular being silicone and latex. But, whatever you choose, it’s important to make sure that your chosen strap on dildo is compatible with the type of harness you plan on using.
Once you’ve got all the necessary gear, you can start to prepare yourself and your partner for the experience. The important thing to do is to talk to your partner and make sure that they’re comfortable with going through with the experience. Don’t forget to take a few precautions too; make sure your partner is relaxed and warm, use a lot of lube, and don’t forget the condom.
Now that you’re all ready, you can start the process of strapping on your new strap on dildo. With your harness on, slide the O–ring over the base of the strap on dildo and make sure that the toy is firmly in place. If your harness is a strap–on model, then follow the instructions that came with the package for putting it on correctly. Once your toy and harness are firmly in place, you’re ready to get started!
When the time comes to start using the strap on dildo, remember to go slow and be gentle. Start by carefully inserting the strap on dildo. If you’re using lube, make sure to use enough and to keep reapplying throughout the experience. Your partner may feel a slight pinch when the strap on dildo first enters them, but it should never be painful. Take it slow and stop if either of you begins to feel discomfort.
Once the strap on dildo is inserted, you’re ready to start exploring. Start by making slow thrusts. You can make them deeper or gentler depending on what you and your partner prefer. Remember to keep talking to each other and communicating throughout for maximum pleasure. It’s also a great idea to experiment with different positions; getting on top and taking the more dominant role can be incredibly stimulating. Also, be sure to remember to take a break every now and then to add some variety to the experience.
Finally, when it’s time to take the strap on dildo out, be gentle and start to slow down the rhythm. You’ll know when it’s completely out and you can slip the O–ring off or unhook the strap–on dildo harness. So, if you’re looking to explore something new and exciting, why not consider strapping on a strap on dildo for a truly unforgettable experience. With careful preparation and the right technique, you and your partner can enjoy a pleasurable evening of pleasure and intimacy that you won’t soon forget.