It's fun, easy, and quite affordable to bring an erotic adventure to the bedroom with strap-ons. Is there such a thing as a strap-on? Usually strapped on to one's pelvis, strap-ons hold dildos in the place where a penis would be. Using them is simple - anyone can have some form of fun with them!
Everyone, regardless of gender or stated sexuality, can enjoy all the small to large scale benefits that strap-ons provide; spending lots of time or money on 'traditional' sex is not a pre-requisite. What exactly is the process of putting on a strap-on for penetrating sex? I completely understand this question being asked. Starting out on a strap-on journey does not mean knowing all that follows it.
Trying new adult sex toys (of any kind) can be to some small degree intimidating. There's no need to worry! Putting the right strap-on dildo on and using it correctly is key to at least partial, if not full, sexual satisfaction; sheets or otherwise, we all want that end result. Information (and all that goes with it) is what we are here to provide.
STRAP-ONS: HOW TO PUT THEM ON
Here's where the fun begins! Essentially, a strap-on is composed of a harness and a dildo. There are two parts to a harness: a strap and a buckle. The harness itself is attached to the wearer's hips. According to your preferences and body shape, harnesses usually look like boxer briefs, panties, or some form of multiple straps. A dildo fits through an O-shaped opening; compatibility is something you want to at least check for before buying a harness. Are you ready to ride the wildest ride of your life?
The following steps will show you how to attach the strap-on. Holding the dildo securely in place is the primary concern, so a standard harness with an O-ring and/or metal snaps is ideal. Your best strap-on dildo should be grabbed and prepared for this - get started!
1. The O-ring must be removed from the harness. Some harnesses accommodate different sized dildos via interchangeable rings, but most have only one.
2. Using that O-ring, thread the dildo through. Before 'getting it right', practice all possible positioning of the dildo.
3. Reattach the O-ring (metal snaps if desired) so things don't become too rough and steamy, and the dildo doesn't fall out.
4. Putting on a harness is similar to putting on any type of underwear.
5. Take a moment to adjust it snugly around the hips. Thigh straps if present should also be adjusted.
6. Keep it lubricated! Lube is and will always be important to both parties; penetration and all that follows, are just part of the experience.
7. First time or not, enjoy the ride. Feel free to push and pull the harness as you go. Penetration and all, is a beautiful thing.
Once you insert it, you will not need your hands. If the dildo slips out, you may not notice right away - feeling is completely removed from the equation. Keeping an eye on it is what will be required; physically noticing it leaving will not happen.
Can you handle being 'blown away'?
Wrapping a harness around the pelvis is something you don't have to do when learning to use a strap-on. An adjustable harness can be worn on heads, feet, chin, legs, or hands. These steps can follow any and all kinds of strap-ons; the specific corrections made will depend on where the dildo attaches to the body. There are infinite possibilities with strap-ons! A beginner's strap-on system is available if getting overwhelmed by 'too many steps' is a concern. Beginners learning the whole harness/strap-on process will find simple, easy to use harnesses (Vac-U-Loc being a prime example) to be the perfect starting point.
STRAP-ONS: HOW TO USE THEM PROPERLY
Strap-ons can be used in a variety of ways! It is an erotic sex toy that facilitates just about any fantasy you can think of; consent and having fun being the two absolute prerequisites. Often, women orgasm from the simple act of moving while pressing against their clitoris using a strap-on. People with non-genital genitalia find them highly rewarding as well.
Using lubricant is the key to both putting on and securely assembling the strap-on itself. Lubrication is always a good idea! Optimal stimulation requires some form of lube - where ever you plan to place the dildo, internal or external, smoothness is important. A little extra 'slick' in more self-lubricating areas (vagina, mouth being prime examples) will go a long way. A smooth safe erotic playdate is what this device enables. A longer night of pleasure may require assistance, vaginal lubrication being produced slowly over time. Don't use silicone lubricant with a silicone dildo if you normally do (even if you wash it out carefully). Silicone on silicone shortens the life of either or both, to me at least a very precious sex toy.
CONCLUSION
Strap-on fun at its finest! Do not let fear or worry keep you from trying out a strap-on harness; being hesitant or concerned about 'not knowing how it works' is something that I have seen many people struggle with. Having learned everything there is to know regarding strap-ons, and truly making the most of an evening with one, go out and spice up the bedroom (your own being the best part).
Strap-on fun at its finest! Fear and that all encompassing worry should never be factors in trying this out. Learning the 'how to's' of strap-ons is a positive step, and in the end, personalization of the experience is what we all want. Bedroom fun, and all of its subsequent joy, is worth it.
