It is easy for many people to think that the shoulder strap-on dildo is just simply a sex toy and that using it isn't a very enjoyable experience. In reality, however, the strap-on dildo can provide a whole new level of sexual excitement; something previously unseeable. Used as a more 'fun' sex toy, this is where its true potential lies.
Using a strap on dildo itself is very easy, preparing yourself properly being the key factor. Preparing the airplane head (if that's what you call it) free of any burrs is the first step - safety comes first. The second step being the straps themselves, safe and strong enough to at least carry you around. Some form of lubricant should be prepared for the best possible pleasure from the sexual experience.
Setting up the strap on is the next logical step. Tying the straps around your lover's waist, adjusting their strength to a near perfect tightness is what I find to be ideal. Applying that same lubricant to their body follows, slow and careful insertion of the airplane head being the final part of the setup.
Different rhythms while thrusting are a great way to push the pleasure further. Quick thrusts, slow thrusts, angles of thrust - all three or more of the above combined - will and should be tried. More and more I believe we all want to explore every single possible experience of pleasure; strap on or not.
It is also possible to rotate the head a little bit when you insert the strap on dildo to a certain depth. Better stimulating your lover's more sensitive areas is one of the main reasons for doing this; introducing it 'step by step' of some sort is the ideal way to achieve this. The fun aspect of sex can be better enjoyed by trying different positions - supine, side positions if you like, anything to get that all round jollity of the act experienced properly.
Trying some form of aphrodisiac techniques during sex would be a good idea; simple things like touching, kissing, or what I refer to as 'fleshy words' can go a long way. All strap on dildos have these benefits to them; becoming closer with your partner is one of the more positive outcomes you can hope for from regular sex using them.
The last thing to be aware of are the safety issues. Strap on dildos must be used with at least some care. Strong straps are a must, injuries of any sort should be avoided. The airplane head (if that's what you want to call it) and all associated parts of the strap itself need to be in good working order - damage to either will only lead to more problems. Lubricants are another point; over use is bad, but a little or no lubricant at all is still a risk to the skin. Careful use of all things, small or large, is important.
Strap on dildos can and will bring a new experience of sexual satisfaction. I truly believe it can be a positive, or at least partially enjoyable, experience of sex. New or not, I think we all want to try it at some point. Enjoy!
