No, strap on dildos are not the same as the real thing. A strap on dildo is a sex toy, meant for use in lesbian, gay, bisexual, nonbinary, trans, and other types of sexual relationships, that is designed to simulate penetration. It is often made from silicone or other materials, and is worn and held in place with a harness. Strap on dildos come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. They can also be quite realistic looking and feeling in terms of texture, and can be curved or straight depending on personal preference.
Unlike a real penis, a strap on dildo is often much larger or smaller than an average penis size. And, of course, it isn‘t attached to a person like a real penis is. This means that it can‘t respond or react to touch or other stimulation in the way that a real penis can. It also doesn‘t provide any bodily fluids or natural lubrication, so it isn‘t as effective at creating a comfortable, pleasurable experience.
Another difference between strap on dildos and the real thing is that a strap on dildo can‘t get an erection. Many people prefer the feel of a real, erect penis to a strap on dildo that remains in its limp state. And, the harness that holds a strap on dildo in place can sometimes interfere with certain positions or angles that might be more comfortable for the person wearing it.
For satisfaction purposes, a strap on dildo may be a little less satisfying than the real thing. This is because it doesn‘t provide the same sensations that a partner would give as they thrust and grind. The physical sensation of having another person’s body pressed against yours can be difficult to replicate with a strap on dildo. Furthermore, a strap on dildo isn‘t able to react to one‘s partner’s movement and pressure, which can be a big part of the pleasure associated with sex.
The lack of sensation and the harness can also interfere with the mental and emotional aspects of sex as well. Since there isn‘t the same physical connection or sexual chemistry as with a real penis, some might find it difficult to get aroused or to reach orgasm. It is also difficult to feel or enjoy the same level of closeness and intimacy with a strap on dildo as you would with a real penis.
That said, there are some advantages to using a strap on dildo. For instance, women may find that a strap on dildo provides more direct clitoral stimulation, as opposed to their partner’s penis. People in same–sex relationships may also prefer the size and shape of a strap on dildo, which can be better suited to their own body type or sexual preferences. Plus, strap on dildos can also be a great way for two people to experience new sensations together.
Overall, a strap on dildo can be a great addition to a couple‘s sex life and can provide an enjoyable experience for both partners. However, it is important to remember that it isn‘t the same as the real thing. It lacks the sensation, connection, and body chemistry that make sex with a real penis so pleasurable. But if used correctly and with the right approach, a strap on dildo can be just as satisfying and enjoyable as the real thing.